"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TylerDurden Phone Conference

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's up with the sudden Tyler Durden this and that lately?
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
After The Game came out people are realizing that he's the shyt.


JC Jerkson
I don't want to take this thread too far off topic, but it completely changed my perception of Tyler, for the worse.

I never really read his sh*t. Infact, I haven't read very much from the gurus of the PUA world.

But he was my favourite, due me reading he was short, fat and red headed. I thought he must be awesome. And I didn't need much convincing since I loved his handle.

After reading the game though, I found I lost alot of respect for all of the guru's. While at the same time becomming alot more interested in them.

When I first read about project hollywood, I assumed that place was going to be rocking, the #1 place to be. It rarely had girls. I get as many girls to my wings house. And theres only 2 of us, and neither of us a gurus, and his parents live there.

I was also surprised that this all stayed underground before the game came out. I'm surprised that Courtney Love for example, didn't mention she was living with these guys in an interveiw. Surely it would have been very interesting to her to talk about.

-side note. I loved the mini papa's. In the couple of mentions they got, it always made me giggle. And Extramask, very funny.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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