"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TylerDurden Phone Conference

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's up with the sudden Tyler Durden this and that lately?
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
After The Game came out people are realizing that he's the shyt.


JC Jerkson
I don't want to take this thread too far off topic, but it completely changed my perception of Tyler, for the worse.

I never really read his sh*t. Infact, I haven't read very much from the gurus of the PUA world.

But he was my favourite, due me reading he was short, fat and red headed. I thought he must be awesome. And I didn't need much convincing since I loved his handle.

After reading the game though, I found I lost alot of respect for all of the guru's. While at the same time becomming alot more interested in them.

When I first read about project hollywood, I assumed that place was going to be rocking, the #1 place to be. It rarely had girls. I get as many girls to my wings house. And theres only 2 of us, and neither of us a gurus, and his parents live there.

I was also surprised that this all stayed underground before the game came out. I'm surprised that Courtney Love for example, didn't mention she was living with these guys in an interveiw. Surely it would have been very interesting to her to talk about.

-side note. I loved the mini papa's. In the couple of mentions they got, it always made me giggle. And Extramask, very funny.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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