"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tyler Durden
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fight_Club_(novel)#Tyler_Durden
It wouldn't matter if Tyler had black, brown, or blond hair. He still acts like a social retard who believes acting like a hyper, effeminate, showman is him "controlling" situations. Hyper by talking fast, always trying to have the last word, and "out thinking" everyone he encounters. Effeminate by making girly style gestures, movements, etc. To come "under the radar" as a non sexually threatening fruitcake to chicks and dudes who may think he's just some fag and not lay him out, and a showman as in he needs to be over the top "impressive" to entertain chicks to "like" him while he's really pandering to them like a simp as well as someone with a video recording device taping to show other clueless dudes "how it's done".mangotot said:
It's all a weird act that countless normal dudes don't do and pickup chicks regardless.
A lot of chicks he goes after are the types most dudes wouldn't bother with as they're nothing special at all. Any chick who's decent looking winds up having a foreign accent which those chicks are almost all visiting from other countries and are almost all friendly with foreigners in countries they visit. So there's no need to act let alone pay to act like a hyper, effeminate, showman to get chicks let alone worry about attracting or talking to the types of chicks Tyler "picks up".
Tyler can't keep a woman- he has some bastard child living somewhere. I'd rather have a life of substance than go around trolling the bars in Miami looking for Russian women who don't speak English.
Id have more respect for Tyler if guys on SS were not shoving him down our throats. "Oh look - Tyler destroys a beta!"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
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Yet on the thread about ss meet up in miami he states he wishes he could move there.
You can't read. I said not to pick up RUSSIAN chicks who can't speak English. If I went to Miami id talk to Latin girls with huge a** and speak perfect English._sideways_ said:
I guess you really can't fix stupid ...
I don't care about some random stranger on the Internet who posts videos and articles to essentially to drum up business. He is not doing it for altruistic purposes. Except to say, fair play to him for learning the skill in picking up women.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
People do what works for them.mangotot said:
Thing you also got to remember though is I don't think they are gonna be going around and showing all the time he gets rejected, but then again if you go to enough bars and are putting yourself out there and interacting your going to be better off.
Alcohol doesnt hurt either.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skyline
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Woah there buddy...The411 said:
There is a lot of hate there... Even though he does act a bit overly hyper around women you can't deny that he still wins. Doesn't matter if they aren't attractive to your standards or not, he still wins. It's like when it comes to racing or being in a fight, even if you win by a second it doesn't matter because you still won. He's not drugging anyone, he's not really forcing anyone, and he probably isn't paying anyone. He's doing what works for him, you shouldn't put people down for doing what works for them. It's like if you're failing a lot with women, it doesn't matter if you failed a little or a lot you still failed. And he looks happy doing it so there really isn't an issue here to be honest.
He still wins dude.
HOLY CRAP! No wonder mangotit neg repped me for ragging on that Tyler/WK video and then AMOGED me with the "you just can't cold approach" nonsense.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
Tits, you are a genius sir. Who would type out "ginger" that much? It's something I hardly ever hear used other than in a self-deprecating, SELF-IDENTIFYING way. Bravo.
Note the feeble decoy attempt in his reply too. LOL, you are busted Tylertot.
VladPatton
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.