You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It wouldn't matter if Tyler had black, brown, or blond hair. He still acts like a social retard who believes acting like a hyper, effeminate, showman is him "controlling" situations. Hyper by talking fast, always trying to have the last word, and "out thinking" everyone he encounters. Effeminate by making girly style gestures, movements, etc. To come "under the radar" as a non sexually threatening fruitcake to chicks and dudes who may think he's just some fag and not lay him out, and a showman as in he needs to be over the top "impressive" to entertain chicks to "like" him while he's really pandering to them like a simp as well as someone with a video recording device taping to show other clueless dudes "how it's done".mangotot said:Since there is some posts about Tyler Durden, just wondering why do people hate this ginger guy?
Because that guy is a f@g.mangotot said:Since there is some posts about Tyler Durden, just wondering why do people hate this ginger guy?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mangotot said:just wondering why do people hate this ginger guy?
mangotot said:The fact is we are all losers in comparison to the old fatty ugly balding ginger.
mangotot said:The white knight was just peeved an ugly old balding ginger
mangotot said:People are mocking the ginger bald ugly dude but the thing is
mangotot said:Props to that ginger bald dude.
mangotot said:the ginger dude brings him to his level.
mangotot said:The ginger dude behaves like that to disarm the White Knight
You can't read. I said not to pick up RUSSIAN chicks who can't speak English. If I went to Miami id talk to Latin girls with huge a** and speak perfect English._sideways_ said:Skinny says he is oppossed to going around miami bars/ night scene i guess...
Yet on the thread about ss meet up in miami he states he wishes he could move there.
I don't care about some random stranger on the Internet who posts videos and articles to essentially to drum up business. He is not doing it for altruistic purposes. Except to say, fair play to him for learning the skill in picking up women.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?![]()
People do what works for them.mangotot said:fair play to him for learning the skill in picking up women.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Woah there buddy...The411 said:It wouldn't matter if Tyler had black, brown, or blond hair. He still acts like a social retard who believes acting like a hyper, effeminate, showman is him "controlling" situations. Hyper by talking fast, always trying to have the last word, and "out thinking" everyone he encounters. Effeminate by making girly style gestures, movements, etc. To come "under the radar" as a non sexually threatening fruitcake to chicks and dudes who may think he's just some fag and not lay him out, and a showman as in he needs to be over the top "impressive" to entertain chicks to "like" him while he's really pandering to them like a simp as well as someone with a video recording device taping to show other clueless dudes "how it's done".
It's all a weird act that countless normal dudes don't do and pickup chicks regardless.
A lot of chicks he goes after are the types most dudes wouldn't bother with as they're nothing special at all. Any chick who's decent looking winds up having a foreign accent which those chicks are almost all visiting from other countries and are almost all friendly with foreigners in countries they visit. So there's no need to act let alone pay to act like a hyper, effeminate, showman to get chicks let alone worry about attracting or talking to the types of chicks Tyler "picks up".
HOLY CRAP! No wonder mangotit neg repped me for ragging on that Tyler/WK video and then AMOGED me with the "you just can't cold approach" nonsense.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?![]()
Tyler's losing far outweighs what you think and he wants you to think he's "winning". But if acting like a complete homo-aspie is winning to you then have at it.Frayzer said:Woah there buddy...
There is a lot of hate there... Even though he does act a bit overly hyper around women you can't deny that he still wins. Doesn't matter if they aren't attractive to your standards or not, he still wins. It's like when it comes to racing or being in a fight, even if you win by a second it doesn't matter because you still won. He's not drugging anyone, he's not really forcing anyone, and he probably isn't paying anyone. He's doing what works for him, you shouldn't put people down for doing what works for them. It's like if you're failing a lot with women, it doesn't matter if you failed a little or a lot you still failed. And he looks happy doing it so there really isn't an issue here to be honest.
He still wins dude.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.