"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Tyler Durden
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fight_Club_(novel)#Tyler_Durden
It wouldn't matter if Tyler had black, brown, or blond hair. He still acts like a social retard who believes acting like a hyper, effeminate, showman is him "controlling" situations. Hyper by talking fast, always trying to have the last word, and "out thinking" everyone he encounters. Effeminate by making girly style gestures, movements, etc. To come "under the radar" as a non sexually threatening fruitcake to chicks and dudes who may think he's just some fag and not lay him out, and a showman as in he needs to be over the top "impressive" to entertain chicks to "like" him while he's really pandering to them like a simp as well as someone with a video recording device taping to show other clueless dudes "how it's done".mangotot said:
It's all a weird act that countless normal dudes don't do and pickup chicks regardless.
A lot of chicks he goes after are the types most dudes wouldn't bother with as they're nothing special at all. Any chick who's decent looking winds up having a foreign accent which those chicks are almost all visiting from other countries and are almost all friendly with foreigners in countries they visit. So there's no need to act let alone pay to act like a hyper, effeminate, showman to get chicks let alone worry about attracting or talking to the types of chicks Tyler "picks up".
Tyler can't keep a woman- he has some bastard child living somewhere. I'd rather have a life of substance than go around trolling the bars in Miami looking for Russian women who don't speak English.
Id have more respect for Tyler if guys on SS were not shoving him down our throats. "Oh look - Tyler destroys a beta!"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
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Yet on the thread about ss meet up in miami he states he wishes he could move there.
You can't read. I said not to pick up RUSSIAN chicks who can't speak English. If I went to Miami id talk to Latin girls with huge a** and speak perfect English._sideways_ said:
I guess you really can't fix stupid ...
I don't care about some random stranger on the Internet who posts videos and articles to essentially to drum up business. He is not doing it for altruistic purposes. Except to say, fair play to him for learning the skill in picking up women.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
People do what works for them.mangotot said:
Thing you also got to remember though is I don't think they are gonna be going around and showing all the time he gets rejected, but then again if you go to enough bars and are putting yourself out there and interacting your going to be better off.
Alcohol doesnt hurt either.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Woah there buddy...The411 said:
There is a lot of hate there... Even though he does act a bit overly hyper around women you can't deny that he still wins. Doesn't matter if they aren't attractive to your standards or not, he still wins. It's like when it comes to racing or being in a fight, even if you win by a second it doesn't matter because you still won. He's not drugging anyone, he's not really forcing anyone, and he probably isn't paying anyone. He's doing what works for him, you shouldn't put people down for doing what works for them. It's like if you're failing a lot with women, it doesn't matter if you failed a little or a lot you still failed. And he looks happy doing it so there really isn't an issue here to be honest.
He still wins dude.
HOLY CRAP! No wonder mangotit neg repped me for ragging on that Tyler/WK video and then AMOGED me with the "you just can't cold approach" nonsense.( . )( . ) said:Something you're not telling us about the "old ugly ginger fatty bald dude" ?
Tits, you are a genius sir. Who would type out "ginger" that much? It's something I hardly ever hear used other than in a self-deprecating, SELF-IDENTIFYING way. Bravo.
Note the feeble decoy attempt in his reply too. LOL, you are busted Tylertot.
VladPatton
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.