"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So tinder matched me to this 9/10, she looked kinda European and there was a pic of her by the Eiffel tower so I said "hey Catherine you look like a classy girl, are you French? I'm half Greek" and within the hour she simply blocked me without replying. **** move.


So I tried talking to my crush at work, she explained she's in a 7 year relationship. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She explained that it just takes confidence and told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.

But then I walk away and her friend said she asked where I went.


Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She knows jack sh1t. Don't EVER take dating advice from women EVER. It's like drinking poison. Especially from one that is in an LTR. Deluded woman.
Women are cruel at times, they dont mean to be, they're too selfish to realise the world doesn't revolve around them.
 
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skinnyguy said:
You care about women too much
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I think so too but damned if I know what to do about it. I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
 
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Whoa whoa WHOA!!! THIS almost made you cry?! :cuss:

We gotta thicken that skin up my friend. The girl on Tinder? Yeah she's a ***** but so what, you don't know her and she means absolutely nothing to you. Don't let that stuff bother you.

The crush is a little more understandable but still you gotta shrug it off. This game is ROUGH and if you don't toughen up it will beat you up severely.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your thread title...

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lanba said:
...So I tried talking to my crush at work. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She...told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.
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this...
lanba said:
Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
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and this...
lanba said:
I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
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Suggests you should wear a skirt and put on make up.

The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
 
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3agle 3yes said:
The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to 3agle 3yes again.
 
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lanba, what if some porky disgusting war pig started flirting with you...wouldn't you ban her?? (not calling you a war pig btw)

Just saying flip it and you get where they are coming from.
Some women are like that.
Get used to it. Get used to not being affected by others' words.
 
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I thought women were selective on tinder? I'm the ******* that has to thumb up 200 women just to get a match. Well I'm not doing another 200.
 
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