"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****ty day

lanba

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So tinder matched me to this 9/10, she looked kinda European and there was a pic of her by the Eiffel tower so I said "hey Catherine you look like a classy girl, are you French? I'm half Greek" and within the hour she simply blocked me without replying. **** move.


So I tried talking to my crush at work, she explained she's in a 7 year relationship. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She explained that it just takes confidence and told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.

But then I walk away and her friend said she asked where I went.


Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don-Kong

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She knows jack sh1t. Don't EVER take dating advice from women EVER. It's like drinking poison. Especially from one that is in an LTR. Deluded woman.
Women are cruel at times, they dont mean to be, they're too selfish to realise the world doesn't revolve around them.
 

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skinnyguy said:
You care about women too much

I think so too but damned if I know what to do about it. I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
 

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Whoa whoa WHOA!!! THIS almost made you cry?! :cuss:

We gotta thicken that skin up my friend. The girl on Tinder? Yeah she's a ***** but so what, you don't know her and she means absolutely nothing to you. Don't let that stuff bother you.

The crush is a little more understandable but still you gotta shrug it off. This game is ROUGH and if you don't toughen up it will beat you up severely.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3agle 3yes

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Your thread title...

this...
lanba said:
...So I tried talking to my crush at work. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She...told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.
this...
lanba said:
Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
and this...
lanba said:
I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
Suggests you should wear a skirt and put on make up.

The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
 

apprenticedj

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3agle 3yes said:
The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to 3agle 3yes again.
 

pdx1138

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lanba, what if some porky disgusting war pig started flirting with you...wouldn't you ban her?? (not calling you a war pig btw)

Just saying flip it and you get where they are coming from.
Some women are like that.
Get used to it. Get used to not being affected by others' words.
 

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I thought women were selective on tinder? I'm the ******* that has to thumb up 200 women just to get a match. Well I'm not doing another 200.
 
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