"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So tinder matched me to this 9/10, she looked kinda European and there was a pic of her by the Eiffel tower so I said "hey Catherine you look like a classy girl, are you French? I'm half Greek" and within the hour she simply blocked me without replying. **** move.


So I tried talking to my crush at work, she explained she's in a 7 year relationship. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She explained that it just takes confidence and told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.

But then I walk away and her friend said she asked where I went.


Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She knows jack sh1t. Don't EVER take dating advice from women EVER. It's like drinking poison. Especially from one that is in an LTR. Deluded woman.
Women are cruel at times, they dont mean to be, they're too selfish to realise the world doesn't revolve around them.
 
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skinnyguy said:
You care about women too much
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I think so too but damned if I know what to do about it. I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
 
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Whoa whoa WHOA!!! THIS almost made you cry?! :cuss:

We gotta thicken that skin up my friend. The girl on Tinder? Yeah she's a ***** but so what, you don't know her and she means absolutely nothing to you. Don't let that stuff bother you.

The crush is a little more understandable but still you gotta shrug it off. This game is ROUGH and if you don't toughen up it will beat you up severely.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your thread title...

this...
lanba said:
...So I tried talking to my crush at work. She asked if I want a girlfriend and I said yes. She...told me "I'm a nice guy" but it was clear she didn't like me.
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this...
lanba said:
Why would she give a ****? I wish girls would stop gaming me. This has been a **** day and I almost cried.
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and this...
lanba said:
I just want one to hold or whatever. Why should everyone but me get to.
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Suggests you should wear a skirt and put on make up.

The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
 
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3agle 3yes said:
The fact is ultimately women don't just want to get f*cked, they want to get F*CKED.

Guys who act like emotional little b*tches most likely f*ck like emotional little b*tches...

Treat women the way you'd like to f*ck them...
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to 3agle 3yes again.
 
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lanba, what if some porky disgusting war pig started flirting with you...wouldn't you ban her?? (not calling you a war pig btw)

Just saying flip it and you get where they are coming from.
Some women are like that.
Get used to it. Get used to not being affected by others' words.
 
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I thought women were selective on tinder? I'm the ******* that has to thumb up 200 women just to get a match. Well I'm not doing another 200.
 
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