Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I am a man with VERY diverse interests and am a moral relativist. I am on a journey through life where I pursue both pleasure and spirituality and hope that I can add some value to this site.
Pleasure and spirituality aren't associated together in the religions you speak of. Maybe go for something like Buddhism or Hinduism.
I wouldn't mind visiting Buddhist and Hindu places of worship. I practice vipassana meditation on my own, and recently went with a friend to his church to potentially meet women, though I didn't tell him that. Perhaps I'll meet Buddhist or Hindu women at their places of worship. I attend a Reform synagogue semi-regularly as I am Jewish, but I am VERY liberal in my interpretation of halakha or our Jewish laws. In fact, as a Reform Jew I can choose which of the 613 mitzvot or commandments in the Torah I want to follow. I would be open to meeting women of any religion or no religion at all. I realize that many Jews, particularly Orthodox or Conservative Jews wouldn't agree with how I live my life. I am open to women of any race, my only requirement to have sex with, or be in a relationship with a woman is that I find her physically attractive.
Yes, even I agree with that.
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