"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright so heres my situation in a nut shell.

Me and this other kid are trying to get this girl, they both dont know it, or at least he doesnt know im trying to go after her too. Whats a good way to win her over him? And whats a good way to tell if shes favoring you more than him, aside from spending time with each other, because Im pretty sure that parts even
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can't win a girl over... She either picks you or him..... You can only present yourself in a more desirable way than he is, but it's still her choice.

Right off the bat, go for another girl, that will make you more desirable for her.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level? Its funny, I've dealt with these situations with other people all my life, but when it comes to me an women Im an idiot
 

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Originally posted by MyOwnKryptonite
Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level?
1. Make her laugh
2. Fvck her

By the time you have completed steps 1 - 2, she will know you are interested in her, trust me on this one.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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lol trust me getting her to laugh isnt a hard task, I do it all the time, but the old get a girl pregnant and force her to keep you trick just doesnt seem like the thing I want to do with this one

Whats some good table discussion? Or random questions to ask
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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