"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright so heres my situation in a nut shell.

Me and this other kid are trying to get this girl, they both dont know it, or at least he doesnt know im trying to go after her too. Whats a good way to win her over him? And whats a good way to tell if shes favoring you more than him, aside from spending time with each other, because Im pretty sure that parts even
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You can't win a girl over... She either picks you or him..... You can only present yourself in a more desirable way than he is, but it's still her choice.

Right off the bat, go for another girl, that will make you more desirable for her.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level? Its funny, I've dealt with these situations with other people all my life, but when it comes to me an women Im an idiot
 

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Originally posted by MyOwnKryptonite
Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level?
1. Make her laugh
2. Fvck her

By the time you have completed steps 1 - 2, she will know you are interested in her, trust me on this one.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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lol trust me getting her to laugh isnt a hard task, I do it all the time, but the old get a girl pregnant and force her to keep you trick just doesnt seem like the thing I want to do with this one

Whats some good table discussion? Or random questions to ask
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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