"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright so heres my situation in a nut shell.

Me and this other kid are trying to get this girl, they both dont know it, or at least he doesnt know im trying to go after her too. Whats a good way to win her over him? And whats a good way to tell if shes favoring you more than him, aside from spending time with each other, because Im pretty sure that parts even
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can't win a girl over... She either picks you or him..... You can only present yourself in a more desirable way than he is, but it's still her choice.

Right off the bat, go for another girl, that will make you more desirable for her.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level? Its funny, I've dealt with these situations with other people all my life, but when it comes to me an women Im an idiot
 

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Originally posted by MyOwnKryptonite
Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level?
1. Make her laugh
2. Fvck her

By the time you have completed steps 1 - 2, she will know you are interested in her, trust me on this one.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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lol trust me getting her to laugh isnt a hard task, I do it all the time, but the old get a girl pregnant and force her to keep you trick just doesnt seem like the thing I want to do with this one

Whats some good table discussion? Or random questions to ask
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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