"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright so heres my situation in a nut shell.

Me and this other kid are trying to get this girl, they both dont know it, or at least he doesnt know im trying to go after her too. Whats a good way to win her over him? And whats a good way to tell if shes favoring you more than him, aside from spending time with each other, because Im pretty sure that parts even
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can't win a girl over... She either picks you or him..... You can only present yourself in a more desirable way than he is, but it's still her choice.

Right off the bat, go for another girl, that will make you more desirable for her.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level? Its funny, I've dealt with these situations with other people all my life, but when it comes to me an women Im an idiot
 

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Originally posted by MyOwnKryptonite
Alright well, she just said yes with going to dinner with me tomorrow night, she wants me to suprise her on where we are going. Whats the best way to bring up the fact that Im interested inher and getting to know her on a more personal level?
1. Make her laugh
2. Fvck her

By the time you have completed steps 1 - 2, she will know you are interested in her, trust me on this one.
 

MyOwnKryptonite

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lol trust me getting her to laugh isnt a hard task, I do it all the time, but the old get a girl pregnant and force her to keep you trick just doesnt seem like the thing I want to do with this one

Whats some good table discussion? Or random questions to ask
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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