"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Posted this in Wingman aswell, sorry if that is against the rules.

Right, i work in a restaurant as a cook, there are two girls at work they are also both cooks and i work with them alot. Sarah and Claire are their names. Well anyway. Both i think are pretty hot, and really nice, im pretty close to claire but i don't really talk to sarah much. Now i want to ask Claire out, but if i got rejected then i would want to persue sarah, now being in the same work place no more than abour 3 metres away from each other everyday thats gonna be a bit difficult, because sarah is gonna know i asked claire out so if i aks sarah out how second best is she gonna feel. PROBLEM!! anyone got any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you asked claire out and got rejected you would have to wait a month or so probably.

Then you could start talking to her (not too much though) and then ask her out without her thinking it was because she was second choice.

she would just think you got interested in her after talking to her more.

anyways, like the guy above i wouldn't reccommend asking girls at work out if you care about having a peaceful job.
 
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Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
 
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Create Reality said:
Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
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lol, thanks guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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