"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Posted this in Wingman aswell, sorry if that is against the rules.

Right, i work in a restaurant as a cook, there are two girls at work they are also both cooks and i work with them alot. Sarah and Claire are their names. Well anyway. Both i think are pretty hot, and really nice, im pretty close to claire but i don't really talk to sarah much. Now i want to ask Claire out, but if i got rejected then i would want to persue sarah, now being in the same work place no more than abour 3 metres away from each other everyday thats gonna be a bit difficult, because sarah is gonna know i asked claire out so if i aks sarah out how second best is she gonna feel. PROBLEM!! anyone got any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if you asked claire out and got rejected you would have to wait a month or so probably.

Then you could start talking to her (not too much though) and then ask her out without her thinking it was because she was second choice.

she would just think you got interested in her after talking to her more.

anyways, like the guy above i wouldn't reccommend asking girls at work out if you care about having a peaceful job.
 
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Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
 
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Create Reality said:
Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
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lol, thanks guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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