"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Two Girls One Place!

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Posted this in Wingman aswell, sorry if that is against the rules.

Right, i work in a restaurant as a cook, there are two girls at work they are also both cooks and i work with them alot. Sarah and Claire are their names. Well anyway. Both i think are pretty hot, and really nice, im pretty close to claire but i don't really talk to sarah much. Now i want to ask Claire out, but if i got rejected then i would want to persue sarah, now being in the same work place no more than abour 3 metres away from each other everyday thats gonna be a bit difficult, because sarah is gonna know i asked claire out so if i aks sarah out how second best is she gonna feel. PROBLEM!! anyone got any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if you asked claire out and got rejected you would have to wait a month or so probably.

Then you could start talking to her (not too much though) and then ask her out without her thinking it was because she was second choice.

she would just think you got interested in her after talking to her more.

anyways, like the guy above i wouldn't reccommend asking girls at work out if you care about having a peaceful job.
 

Create Reality

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Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
 

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Create Reality said:
Yeah, but you don't wanna work with a halfy all day right? You should do what you gotta do soon!

You work in a kitchen huh? Tell her you wanna help her mash her potatoes or something.
lol, thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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