"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Two girls, one doubt

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Hi there, i need some advice in this situation i'm in. Forgive my english, it's not my mother language.

There's two girls in the place i work who have a crush on me, but i don't know what to do. Is not a lack of DJism, i'm already beyond that (thanks to sosuave.net). The thing is:

1. This girl, i call it 1, is a HB8+ who wants to be with me. We went out a couple of times, and she's totally diferent from me: i like Jesus and Mary Chain, foreign movies and books, she like Mariah Carey's R&B kind of music, bad comedies and soap operas. In other words, i try to be "indie" and she's totally "mainstream". Can't think of other way to explain that. But she's caring, funny and very cute.

2. This other girl, 2, is also a HB8+ who wants to be with me, and she is as "indie" as me. The thing is, she have a boyfriend and doesn't have the courage to broke up with him to be with me. She even said to me that she have a great inertia: once she's in a situation, it's hard for her to change it. And we like each other very much. Even my coworkers saw us as a couple there. Damn, i do like her.

So, whatta hell should i do? Go for number 1 and deal with all that stuff or try to get number 2 to me?

Help!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do number one. number to is asking for much unneccessary drama
 
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Heh, thanks anyway TKMan. :p

KingPinp and others: Ok, but is it possible to work with a person that different than me? I mean, there´s things i can´t even say because she´ll have no idea of what i´m talking about, and the places we usually go before we met are different too. I´m not thinking only in get some, i think also in LTR terms. Just wondering, any comments are welcome.
 
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Depends if you want some quick sex or an LTR (long term relationship).

Either could be good for quick sex. Just make sure her BF doesn't kick your ass.

On the other hand, I wouldn't recommend either for an LTR. #1 won't last, there's too much of a personality conflict. #2 is probably just fvcking around with you, don't do anything with her unless she gets rid of the BF.

You can always find other girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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