"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Two girls in the flat two floors below

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So I'm living in a flat with a friend, and two doors below are two girls (who live with one guy). Both are pretty good looking but not so much that they seem out of your league unless you're a 6 ft male model with tattoos.:D

I see them at the bus stop sometimes but haven't uttered a word to either. Honestly I don't know a thing about them, not even their first names. But I reckon either could be a decent prospect. Now, having been out of the game for sometime I've somewhat reverted to AFC status so I am at a loose end of what to do. Do I just stroll up to them and say "so, you're living in the bottom floor flat?" or what? Any tips would be good!:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thatfeel

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lol, just ask them if they want to come up to your flat for a drink, damn. be succinct since they live so close.
 

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thatfeel said:
lol, just ask them if they want to come up to your flat for a drink, damn. be succinct since they live so close.
That would be good but I just can't picture myself strolling up to them and that being the first thing I say to them.:D

This may come across as a "how do I talk to girls?" topic but it's honestly not, since starting University I've become a lot more confident with being the first guy to talk, but that's tended to be with girls on my course where I've had easier icebreakers such as "how you finding the work?" and "what are you gonna choose for your assesment?" etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is a game that I have found very chalenging throughout my whole life.

Building neighbor game.

I found it hard because it's not social circle, because you actually don't know the chick. It's not quite day game, since it's not ramdom, because you might get to see each other on a weekly basis.

And specially, if things don't come out as planed, which might happen, some elevator trips will become extremelly awkward!

I'm not discouraging you OP. It's I personally don't have any good advice on that.

Better yet, I join the same boat as you.

If anyone has any decent advice about it, I'm open to it, there a lots of interesting girls in my building that I share good EC and smiles!
 

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Follow sosuave666 advice otherwise just go up to them.

"Hey neighbor how's it going blah blah"
"How long you been here blah blah"

Don't try to impress, don't even care, and don't give out too much info about yourself either don't want her making stupid assumptions. This sounds indirect and sorta filler more safezone since your hesitant vs Sosuaves direct game which I'd prefer.
 
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