"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Two girls in the flat two floors below

DTR90

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So I'm living in a flat with a friend, and two doors below are two girls (who live with one guy). Both are pretty good looking but not so much that they seem out of your league unless you're a 6 ft male model with tattoos.:D

I see them at the bus stop sometimes but haven't uttered a word to either. Honestly I don't know a thing about them, not even their first names. But I reckon either could be a decent prospect. Now, having been out of the game for sometime I've somewhat reverted to AFC status so I am at a loose end of what to do. Do I just stroll up to them and say "so, you're living in the bottom floor flat?" or what? Any tips would be good!:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thatfeel

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lol, just ask them if they want to come up to your flat for a drink, damn. be succinct since they live so close.
 

DTR90

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thatfeel said:
lol, just ask them if they want to come up to your flat for a drink, damn. be succinct since they live so close.
That would be good but I just can't picture myself strolling up to them and that being the first thing I say to them.:D

This may come across as a "how do I talk to girls?" topic but it's honestly not, since starting University I've become a lot more confident with being the first guy to talk, but that's tended to be with girls on my course where I've had easier icebreakers such as "how you finding the work?" and "what are you gonna choose for your assesment?" etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is a game that I have found very chalenging throughout my whole life.

Building neighbor game.

I found it hard because it's not social circle, because you actually don't know the chick. It's not quite day game, since it's not ramdom, because you might get to see each other on a weekly basis.

And specially, if things don't come out as planed, which might happen, some elevator trips will become extremelly awkward!

I'm not discouraging you OP. It's I personally don't have any good advice on that.

Better yet, I join the same boat as you.

If anyone has any decent advice about it, I'm open to it, there a lots of interesting girls in my building that I share good EC and smiles!
 

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Follow sosuave666 advice otherwise just go up to them.

"Hey neighbor how's it going blah blah"
"How long you been here blah blah"

Don't try to impress, don't even care, and don't give out too much info about yourself either don't want her making stupid assumptions. This sounds indirect and sorta filler more safezone since your hesitant vs Sosuaves direct game which I'd prefer.
 
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