"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two dates in one day?

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ChocolateVanilla

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Hey everyone,


I'm about to go out to get some coffee with this one girl I met but I also want to take her ice skating with this group I'm going with. However, I didn't build a lot of rapport so I was wondering if it was a good idea to take her out to coffee and then go out with her later that night. So it's more like a first date in the morning and then hanging out with lots of people at night. So what do you guys think? Is it too much?

P.S. I've never ice skated before
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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smooth guy

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If your coffee date turns out fine it'll seem reasonable enough asking her to join you with your friends. You didn't build any rapport yet but isn't that the point of the coffee date?
Unless you spend the whole week with her, spending a few hours with her in a day won't do much harm. In fact if both dates go well it could work to your favor.
But it depends on how well the coffee date went.
 
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