"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Two dates in one day?

ChocolateVanilla

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Hey everyone,


I'm about to go out to get some coffee with this one girl I met but I also want to take her ice skating with this group I'm going with. However, I didn't build a lot of rapport so I was wondering if it was a good idea to take her out to coffee and then go out with her later that night. So it's more like a first date in the morning and then hanging out with lots of people at night. So what do you guys think? Is it too much?

P.S. I've never ice skated before
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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smooth guy

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If your coffee date turns out fine it'll seem reasonable enough asking her to join you with your friends. You didn't build any rapport yet but isn't that the point of the coffee date?
Unless you spend the whole week with her, spending a few hours with her in a day won't do much harm. In fact if both dates go well it could work to your favor.
But it depends on how well the coffee date went.
 
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