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Drunk chicks are a boner killer for me. no thanks
Ive been sober for 6 months now,(addict) nearly every female available has hidden alcoholism.

also thanks to the red pill , i am much like you @Medina I can predict their words and sentences on the first date

its like a gift and a curse, i love female company till about 2 hours in, when all the predictable victim spiel comes out
 

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I have no problem turning down sex if a woman comes on too strong. I'm brutally honest with myself - I'm not Chad or Chad-Lite. I'm a very average guy. Any woman that shows too much interest will automatically trigger my suspicion.
 

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Of course I've done it. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. I don't mean to sound cheesy but sex is best when two (or more I guess) people are feeling it.
 

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Anyone do this?

This is no humble brag, hell, you could even call me a low T cuck if you want

Idk how normal it is but I've turned down lots of s3x with different women over the years

Granted they were not 8's or 9's. Probably 7 at best. But still bangable

It's just there is no desperation in me anymore. Which is probably the goal we've all been striving for?

And its not nessercerily a good thing. Being too indifferent. Maybe these young simps are just doing what is actually NATURAL

But as for me I am just so on top of game (both blackpill and redpill) to the point that I'm not really bothered sometimes

You ever turn it down?
Happened a lot of times, sometime it was genuine low libido while other times they annoyed me so much that once I got the validation of their availability I simply decided to pass and rest.

In my case I also have a 24/7 planning brain, cant really live in the moment which is why Im never happy but avoid common mistakes.
It means that even before sticking my d1ck inside Im thinking about the post secs moment, the incoming night and the following morning and most of the times there are simply too many things that could go wrong.
 

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No I do not turn down sex. There’s no reason for a single man to ever turn down sex.

If you don’t want to have sex with her, why are you even entertaining her?
It's not uncommon to be halfway through the process of trying to bed a girl when you realize that everything she says and does is worthless. At that stage it's pretty easy to walk away.
 

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Its the crack that maintains an LTR.
Right after you turn it down....go out with the guys....
Betas
Its exactly that or you wouldn't have said it
No actually its not. You are in comfort zone with a wife. In the future we will here different from you because "look at thread title" says enough.

Wife changing behavior blah blah blah....lol
Cant make this shyt up ppl
Beta azz thread period....
Bro sometimes these posts are a little on the annoying side

Wouldn't be so bad if there was a coherent point
 

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Sure have. Several times. No one is in the mood 100% of the time.

Looks like your posting attracted some posturing. This type of overcompensating behavior is normally associated with those that are either in the closet or far less experienced.
 

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My problem is its seems like i get tired of doing the same women very fast. Even when initially very attracted to the women.

Not sure how normal this is
I think it's a lot more normal than most people want to admit. Unless for offspring, I never understood a young man's willingness to settle down and have sex with the same woman for the rest of his life.

I'm a bit older than a lot here and could now potentially entertain that idea, but not during younger years.
 

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In real life it's close to impossible for me to not want to have sex with a woman after I initiated contact. Period.
That's mostly true for me. There are legitimate reasons to turn down sex. It doesn't happen that much.

I don't like to do one night stands because of the effort it takes to get laid. If I make the effort to get sex, I would prefer it be in a situation where I can have sex with that person multiple times over an extended period of time. One night stands are not the most efficient use of my effort towards getting laid.
 

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That's mostly true for me. There are legitimate reasons to turn down sex. It doesn't happen that much.

I don't like to do one night stands because of the effort it takes to get laid. If I make the effort to get sex, I would prefer it be in a situation where I can have sex with that person multiple times over an extended period of time. One night stands are not the most efficient use of my effort towards getting laid.
Fair enough. Both scenarios have their pros and cons.
 

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That's mostly true for me. There are legitimate reasons to turn down sex. It doesn't happen that much.

I don't like to do one night stands because of the effort it takes to get laid. If I make the effort to get sex, I would prefer it be in a situation where I can have sex with that person multiple times over an extended period of time. One night stands are not the most efficient use of my effort towards getting laid.
Most of my one night / first date flings have turned into consistent plates. Just have to spit the right game...
 

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Your telling us you turn down secs because your game is so tight and so indifferent. You dating? Ltr?

Too much sex,
to much jerking off.
Or too busy and focused in life?
Low T issue.
I dont see any other reason? Its not because your so on top of your game.

Im missing the point of this thread i guess.
Let it build and you will want the putang. Its a simple equation for me.
 

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Your telling us you turn down secs because your game is so tight and so indifferent. You dating? Ltr?

Too much sex,
to much jerking off.
Or too busy and focused in life?
Low T issue.
I dont see any other reason? Its not because your so on top of your game.

Im missing the point of this thread i guess.
Let it build and you will want the putang. Its a simple equation for me.
Beggars cant be chooser its all come down to this. Beggars are needy.

A hungry man will eat w/e you give him.
 

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Im about to turn down sex tonight with hb9 plate i know since a year now, but since she said she havent been with anyone elses since covid.. Then im going to show up tonight. She free to fvck anyone she wants but ill be gone.

Depends on situation i would say.
 

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Im about to turn down sex tonight with hb9 plate i know since a year now, but since she said she havent been with anyone elses since covid.. Then im going to show up tonight. She free to fvck anyone she wants but ill be gone.

Depends on situation i would say.
If you gonna turn that down give her to me I’ll take good care of her sexual needs.
 
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