DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Is it possible to turn a chic out? Maybe to the point of being stalked? Anyone have any experience with this...
Just making small talk. :nervous:
Just making small talk. :nervous:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Turned Out
- Thread starter DoubleA
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
Well, when I've heard it used, it meant to put her out on the street as a "working girl".
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
LOL.
Yo Rollo,
I think we might be losing some soldiers who are gettin caught by some "different culture thang" friendly fire.lol
Anyway, "Turning a chick out" is another way of saying that you have pleased her sexually like no other. You have introduced her to either new things, or better sex than she's ever had before. She's now freakier with you than she has been with anybody else. I THINK that's what Rollo is referring to. (Yo dude, feel free to correct me if i'm wrong.)
Anyway, I've done it a few times. Once by accident when I was a young AFC. But most recently, I've done it by design---as a burgeoning DJ.
I have this thick, stout honey that i'm seeing right now that is asking for it ALL THE TIME. She's a no-strings attached FB---by HER CHOICE (I"ll reveal the reason why in a second).
I have consistently given her multiple orgasms. Orgasms that she says she feels the contractions all the way up to her throat. WFT??? I'll just have to take her word for it...
But no, she is not stalking me yet. BUT, the only thing that is keeping her from doing it is the sheer power of the United States Army. What do I mean? Do I mean that it takes an army to keep her off of me? My ego wants to say YES, but alas, the answer is NO.
The reason why it takes an army to keep her away from me is because she has just ENLISTED...and she will be leaving for Boot Camp and a four year tour of duty in TWO WEEKS!!!!!! LOL
Oh well, it's been fun while it's lasted, though.
A PIECE...one day. lol
Yo Rollo,
I think we might be losing some soldiers who are gettin caught by some "different culture thang" friendly fire.lol
Anyway, "Turning a chick out" is another way of saying that you have pleased her sexually like no other. You have introduced her to either new things, or better sex than she's ever had before. She's now freakier with you than she has been with anybody else. I THINK that's what Rollo is referring to. (Yo dude, feel free to correct me if i'm wrong.)
Anyway, I've done it a few times. Once by accident when I was a young AFC. But most recently, I've done it by design---as a burgeoning DJ.
I have this thick, stout honey that i'm seeing right now that is asking for it ALL THE TIME. She's a no-strings attached FB---by HER CHOICE (I"ll reveal the reason why in a second).
I have consistently given her multiple orgasms. Orgasms that she says she feels the contractions all the way up to her throat. WFT??? I'll just have to take her word for it...
But no, she is not stalking me yet. BUT, the only thing that is keeping her from doing it is the sheer power of the United States Army. What do I mean? Do I mean that it takes an army to keep her off of me? My ego wants to say YES, but alas, the answer is NO.
The reason why it takes an army to keep her away from me is because she has just ENLISTED...and she will be leaving for Boot Camp and a four year tour of duty in TWO WEEKS!!!!!! LOL
Oh well, it's been fun while it's lasted, though.
A PIECE...one day. lol
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I've heard "turned out" used more as VU's definition, but applied to pimping. Indeed, you "do the girl so right" the first time such that she'll do ANYTHING to keep in your good graces. Anything these days includes selling your body for cash and providing a large portion of the cash to the dude who "turned her out".
That being said, I'm not going to brag. Instead, I'll say yes, it's very possible. Chicks get goofy in the head when you can put it to them like none they've ever known. I can't even begin to tell you how easy it is to spin FB plates that way. Women will get addicted to consistent mind-blowing sex experiences and I've had a couple of funny relationships because of it. I can say that I've been "stalked". When they realize that it is very possible they may never have sex that good again... they tend to panic. When you couple the sexin' with some brainwashing, pimping is very possible. But ultimately, you need to start by finding the right women - women who have been abused.
That being said, I'm not going to brag. Instead, I'll say yes, it's very possible. Chicks get goofy in the head when you can put it to them like none they've ever known. I can't even begin to tell you how easy it is to spin FB plates that way. Women will get addicted to consistent mind-blowing sex experiences and I've had a couple of funny relationships because of it. I can say that I've been "stalked". When they realize that it is very possible they may never have sex that good again... they tend to panic. When you couple the sexin' with some brainwashing, pimping is very possible. But ultimately, you need to start by finding the right women - women who have been abused.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Fellas,
I was just asking if it was possible. That's all. I mean if it's possible to get inside a woman's head that way to the point of her not knowing how to act. Almost to the point of calling you continuously or driving by your crib at night.
That's all.
- The R
I was just asking if it was possible. That's all. I mean if it's possible to get inside a woman's head that way to the point of her not knowing how to act. Almost to the point of calling you continuously or driving by your crib at night.
That's all.
- The R
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Although you fellas are making this a lighthearted post, It does come with some serious complications. THIS is the greatest dilemma of becoming a congruent, mature DJ. Once you get to a point where women aren't your issue you run the risk of them getting so clingy and needy and infected with one-itis they would rather masturbate with a cactus than go a moment without you.
This is one of the underlying themes of my screenplay.
This is one of the underlying themes of my screenplay.
BobFuest
Senior Don Juan
i have a question along these lines. I "turned out" my last LTR. She loved it all the time. 7 months later all she complained about was sex. You ever get that? I didnt move my hips good enough, i didnt do all the right things, i was all about myself, then i wasnt aggressive enough, then she didnt feel enough passion from me, then i was doing it too hard.
As soon as I left her i slept with another girl and made her legs shake so bad she couldnt walk for 20 minutes. She was viablely shaking. So i dont get it at all.
As soon as I left her i slept with another girl and made her legs shake so bad she couldnt walk for 20 minutes. She was viablely shaking. So i dont get it at all.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
[bragging]I've done that, with several girls. By being innovative, and by being better at talking dirty in bed than anyone they had ever met. It seems most guys are quiet in bed - me, I think the communication adds a great deal. I have had girls say that now that they've learned to talk dirty, they don't want to have sex without it.[/bragging]
The Army - I wonder how you manage your sex life in the service. Do you have the weekends off, evenings off? What are your working hours like? And if you live on base, does that mean you can never take a girl home to have sex with her?
I've done military service in Sweden - not much action there. (Well, not of the romantic kind.) Typically you would go 5-2 or 10-4, meaning five days of service and two days off, or ten days of service and four days off. When you got home, you mostly wanted to rest, and you only get four dollars a day (!), so you can't go out much. But then again, it's only for a year.
Your name makes me think of the old Sol Invictus, is that where you got it from?Victory Unlimited said:
The Army - I wonder how you manage your sex life in the service. Do you have the weekends off, evenings off? What are your working hours like? And if you live on base, does that mean you can never take a girl home to have sex with her?
I've done military service in Sweden - not much action there. (Well, not of the romantic kind.) Typically you would go 5-2 or 10-4, meaning five days of service and two days off, or ten days of service and four days off. When you got home, you mostly wanted to rest, and you only get four dollars a day (!), so you can't go out much. But then again, it's only for a year.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.