"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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turned down in traffic...This is my weak point.

gimmeyofonenumba

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I can approach chicks with them not giving me any looks at all, and if i get rejected its no big deal at all, just makes me stronger. However today this chick hit my weak spot. I saw her leaving the building and i know i caught the corner of her eye she got in her car and i was at the other side of the parking lot. We were at the stop light together, I smiled, she smiled back, we went to another stop light i shouted out hey and she waved and laughed, next...I stick out my phone like signaling for her to yell out her number. She nods her head no and takes off, i follow her again, and this time she winds up her windows :down: i left it at that.
Its still the afc left in me, i can tell when a girl is giving me a genuine smile, and if she does i Must have her! because its around theese women i get the confidence to be myself and really take um out and have a good time.
-The hot girls i approach are almost always miserable,monotone or dont wanna be bothered. Must be the damn heat.
I instantly fall for the sweet innocent looking girl, how can i make women smile like this.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two words for ya: no rapport.

Eye contact alone will not get you phone numbers. Generating interest will.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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First of all props to ya for having the balls to try something like this.

I wanted to do something similar when my friend was driving and he wouldn't let me do it, he even locked the windows to make sure I couldn't roll them down!

Anyways, back on topic, I wouldn't follow someone for a long time cause thats stalkerish I think, next time go for it within seconds of seeing her. Like smile wave your phone immediatley, do not wait to pull up to her again. Maybe that will work better.

BTW, did you get this technique from David DeAngelo? I could've sworn he said something similar to this in one of his programs.
 

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I know no rapport wont get me a phone number, thats why i wanna call her get to know her, how else do strangers talk in evening traffic? ALso. I've downloaded lots of Dangelo but never read about him doing this. I used to ride around with a big poster board project from one of my classes and on the back was a smilie face that said "hey there...." on the other side it said " can i have your #"
 
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