"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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turned down in traffic...This is my weak point.

gimmeyofonenumba

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I can approach chicks with them not giving me any looks at all, and if i get rejected its no big deal at all, just makes me stronger. However today this chick hit my weak spot. I saw her leaving the building and i know i caught the corner of her eye she got in her car and i was at the other side of the parking lot. We were at the stop light together, I smiled, she smiled back, we went to another stop light i shouted out hey and she waved and laughed, next...I stick out my phone like signaling for her to yell out her number. She nods her head no and takes off, i follow her again, and this time she winds up her windows :down: i left it at that.
Its still the afc left in me, i can tell when a girl is giving me a genuine smile, and if she does i Must have her! because its around theese women i get the confidence to be myself and really take um out and have a good time.
-The hot girls i approach are almost always miserable,monotone or dont wanna be bothered. Must be the damn heat.
I instantly fall for the sweet innocent looking girl, how can i make women smile like this.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Two words for ya: no rapport.

Eye contact alone will not get you phone numbers. Generating interest will.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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First of all props to ya for having the balls to try something like this.

I wanted to do something similar when my friend was driving and he wouldn't let me do it, he even locked the windows to make sure I couldn't roll them down!

Anyways, back on topic, I wouldn't follow someone for a long time cause thats stalkerish I think, next time go for it within seconds of seeing her. Like smile wave your phone immediatley, do not wait to pull up to her again. Maybe that will work better.

BTW, did you get this technique from David DeAngelo? I could've sworn he said something similar to this in one of his programs.
 

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I know no rapport wont get me a phone number, thats why i wanna call her get to know her, how else do strangers talk in evening traffic? ALso. I've downloaded lots of Dangelo but never read about him doing this. I used to ride around with a big poster board project from one of my classes and on the back was a smilie face that said "hey there...." on the other side it said " can i have your #"
 
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