"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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turned down in traffic...This is my weak point.

gimmeyofonenumba

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I can approach chicks with them not giving me any looks at all, and if i get rejected its no big deal at all, just makes me stronger. However today this chick hit my weak spot. I saw her leaving the building and i know i caught the corner of her eye she got in her car and i was at the other side of the parking lot. We were at the stop light together, I smiled, she smiled back, we went to another stop light i shouted out hey and she waved and laughed, next...I stick out my phone like signaling for her to yell out her number. She nods her head no and takes off, i follow her again, and this time she winds up her windows :down: i left it at that.
Its still the afc left in me, i can tell when a girl is giving me a genuine smile, and if she does i Must have her! because its around theese women i get the confidence to be myself and really take um out and have a good time.
-The hot girls i approach are almost always miserable,monotone or dont wanna be bothered. Must be the damn heat.
I instantly fall for the sweet innocent looking girl, how can i make women smile like this.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Two words for ya: no rapport.

Eye contact alone will not get you phone numbers. Generating interest will.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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First of all props to ya for having the balls to try something like this.

I wanted to do something similar when my friend was driving and he wouldn't let me do it, he even locked the windows to make sure I couldn't roll them down!

Anyways, back on topic, I wouldn't follow someone for a long time cause thats stalkerish I think, next time go for it within seconds of seeing her. Like smile wave your phone immediatley, do not wait to pull up to her again. Maybe that will work better.

BTW, did you get this technique from David DeAngelo? I could've sworn he said something similar to this in one of his programs.
 

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I know no rapport wont get me a phone number, thats why i wanna call her get to know her, how else do strangers talk in evening traffic? ALso. I've downloaded lots of Dangelo but never read about him doing this. I used to ride around with a big poster board project from one of my classes and on the back was a smilie face that said "hey there...." on the other side it said " can i have your #"
 
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