“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tug of war

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So the new girl at work and I have been having a tug of war of sorts. Crashed at her place a few times (no sex) and a small make out session after work. She's the over social type that goes out every night to this or that event and has a plethora of male "friends".

In conversation she'll bring up other guys names and complain that guys only want casual sex with no commitment and then turn around and say she's not ready for a relationship either.

The other day she says she's at this other guys house and wants to come over to my place later (8pmish). I say cool but have to cancel due to family related circumstances.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Fast forward a few days later...after a night out myself and another female acquaintance crash at her place. She makes sure that said female acquaintance doesn't sleep in my bed (knowing that said female acquaintance and I might get it on).

In the morning I hear her chatting in French with another male voice. I walk to the living room and find her sitting on the couch with the guy she was supposed to visit before coming to my place. He's genuinely a nice guy so I say hello and proceed to get the eff out of that awkward situation. He seemed to be into her so you can imagine what must have been going through his head to see a guy he didn't know was there, who looked like he slept over, come from nowhere and leave.

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Fast forward another couple of days she says she wants to take the bus home with me so I can show her how to get to the guy from the couch's house who happens to live close to my place. I tell her I'm not a damn bus driver and to figure it out.

She calls asking about some bull**** I just "uhu" her and cut her off before she starts to chew my ear off. She sends me a text later telling me she wasn't finished talking and I seemed busy. I didn't respond.


So my question guys, this girl seems to enjoy playing guys like suckers. She shows some hoish tendencies like bouncing from one "guy friend" to the next. I've refused to play her game and been ignoring/her jokingly teasing her, plus bringing other females around (said female acquaintance for example). To be frank I'm trying to ****, so what's the next move fellas?
 
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