"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tug of war

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So the new girl at work and I have been having a tug of war of sorts. Crashed at her place a few times (no sex) and a small make out session after work. She's the over social type that goes out every night to this or that event and has a plethora of male "friends".

In conversation she'll bring up other guys names and complain that guys only want casual sex with no commitment and then turn around and say she's not ready for a relationship either.

The other day she says she's at this other guys house and wants to come over to my place later (8pmish). I say cool but have to cancel due to family related circumstances.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fast forward a few days later...after a night out myself and another female acquaintance crash at her place. She makes sure that said female acquaintance doesn't sleep in my bed (knowing that said female acquaintance and I might get it on).

In the morning I hear her chatting in French with another male voice. I walk to the living room and find her sitting on the couch with the guy she was supposed to visit before coming to my place. He's genuinely a nice guy so I say hello and proceed to get the eff out of that awkward situation. He seemed to be into her so you can imagine what must have been going through his head to see a guy he didn't know was there, who looked like he slept over, come from nowhere and leave.

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Fast forward another couple of days she says she wants to take the bus home with me so I can show her how to get to the guy from the couch's house who happens to live close to my place. I tell her I'm not a damn bus driver and to figure it out.

She calls asking about some bull**** I just "uhu" her and cut her off before she starts to chew my ear off. She sends me a text later telling me she wasn't finished talking and I seemed busy. I didn't respond.


So my question guys, this girl seems to enjoy playing guys like suckers. She shows some hoish tendencies like bouncing from one "guy friend" to the next. I've refused to play her game and been ignoring/her jokingly teasing her, plus bringing other females around (said female acquaintance for example). To be frank I'm trying to ****, so what's the next move fellas?
 
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