"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tug of war

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So the new girl at work and I have been having a tug of war of sorts. Crashed at her place a few times (no sex) and a small make out session after work. She's the over social type that goes out every night to this or that event and has a plethora of male "friends".

In conversation she'll bring up other guys names and complain that guys only want casual sex with no commitment and then turn around and say she's not ready for a relationship either.

The other day she says she's at this other guys house and wants to come over to my place later (8pmish). I say cool but have to cancel due to family related circumstances.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fast forward a few days later...after a night out myself and another female acquaintance crash at her place. She makes sure that said female acquaintance doesn't sleep in my bed (knowing that said female acquaintance and I might get it on).

In the morning I hear her chatting in French with another male voice. I walk to the living room and find her sitting on the couch with the guy she was supposed to visit before coming to my place. He's genuinely a nice guy so I say hello and proceed to get the eff out of that awkward situation. He seemed to be into her so you can imagine what must have been going through his head to see a guy he didn't know was there, who looked like he slept over, come from nowhere and leave.

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Fast forward another couple of days she says she wants to take the bus home with me so I can show her how to get to the guy from the couch's house who happens to live close to my place. I tell her I'm not a damn bus driver and to figure it out.

She calls asking about some bull**** I just "uhu" her and cut her off before she starts to chew my ear off. She sends me a text later telling me she wasn't finished talking and I seemed busy. I didn't respond.


So my question guys, this girl seems to enjoy playing guys like suckers. She shows some hoish tendencies like bouncing from one "guy friend" to the next. I've refused to play her game and been ignoring/her jokingly teasing her, plus bringing other females around (said female acquaintance for example). To be frank I'm trying to ****, so what's the next move fellas?
 
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