“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So the new girl at work and I have been having a tug of war of sorts. Crashed at her place a few times (no sex) and a small make out session after work. She's the over social type that goes out every night to this or that event and has a plethora of male "friends".

In conversation she'll bring up other guys names and complain that guys only want casual sex with no commitment and then turn around and say she's not ready for a relationship either.

The other day she says she's at this other guys house and wants to come over to my place later (8pmish). I say cool but have to cancel due to family related circumstances.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Fast forward a few days later...after a night out myself and another female acquaintance crash at her place. She makes sure that said female acquaintance doesn't sleep in my bed (knowing that said female acquaintance and I might get it on).

In the morning I hear her chatting in French with another male voice. I walk to the living room and find her sitting on the couch with the guy she was supposed to visit before coming to my place. He's genuinely a nice guy so I say hello and proceed to get the eff out of that awkward situation. He seemed to be into her so you can imagine what must have been going through his head to see a guy he didn't know was there, who looked like he slept over, come from nowhere and leave.

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Fast forward another couple of days she says she wants to take the bus home with me so I can show her how to get to the guy from the couch's house who happens to live close to my place. I tell her I'm not a damn bus driver and to figure it out.

She calls asking about some bull**** I just "uhu" her and cut her off before she starts to chew my ear off. She sends me a text later telling me she wasn't finished talking and I seemed busy. I didn't respond.


So my question guys, this girl seems to enjoy playing guys like suckers. She shows some hoish tendencies like bouncing from one "guy friend" to the next. I've refused to play her game and been ignoring/her jokingly teasing her, plus bringing other females around (said female acquaintance for example). To be frank I'm trying to ****, so what's the next move fellas?
 
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