"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was in a motivational class today (for work) and there was a really cute girl there(22), I really liked the way she dressed (minimal make up) and her cute face.

Anyway...I was just sitting next to her today and said hi and we had small talk, and every time we looked around the room and caught glances we smiled at each other, the thing I was curious about was the amount of times she did look at me (I could feel eyes on me) and how often she played with and twirled her hair, or dusted lint off her clothes.

All I would like to know is if these were just signs of boredom, nervousness or whether she wants attention from me and I should talk to her more (I'm still quite quiet around girls, only because I have was in a relationship for years and it feels all different again.

What do you all think?...any advice?

peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah bro , you know she was attracted, don't front. You just had too small of a sack to take a risk and do anything about it.
 

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Girls flirt and show interest with their eyes. Instead of the small talk, try getting her interest level up. Be charming, flirty, a little ****y, playful, etc.

I would have gone with Edmond's advice, or tell her to join you for a bite during or after the training. Are you going to see her again?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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