"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was in a motivational class today (for work) and there was a really cute girl there(22), I really liked the way she dressed (minimal make up) and her cute face.

Anyway...I was just sitting next to her today and said hi and we had small talk, and every time we looked around the room and caught glances we smiled at each other, the thing I was curious about was the amount of times she did look at me (I could feel eyes on me) and how often she played with and twirled her hair, or dusted lint off her clothes.

All I would like to know is if these were just signs of boredom, nervousness or whether she wants attention from me and I should talk to her more (I'm still quite quiet around girls, only because I have was in a relationship for years and it feels all different again.

What do you all think?...any advice?

peace
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah bro , you know she was attracted, don't front. You just had too small of a sack to take a risk and do anything about it.
 

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Girls flirt and show interest with their eyes. Instead of the small talk, try getting her interest level up. Be charming, flirty, a little ****y, playful, etc.

I would have gone with Edmond's advice, or tell her to join you for a bite during or after the training. Are you going to see her again?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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