"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was in a motivational class today (for work) and there was a really cute girl there(22), I really liked the way she dressed (minimal make up) and her cute face.

Anyway...I was just sitting next to her today and said hi and we had small talk, and every time we looked around the room and caught glances we smiled at each other, the thing I was curious about was the amount of times she did look at me (I could feel eyes on me) and how often she played with and twirled her hair, or dusted lint off her clothes.

All I would like to know is if these were just signs of boredom, nervousness or whether she wants attention from me and I should talk to her more (I'm still quite quiet around girls, only because I have was in a relationship for years and it feels all different again.

What do you all think?...any advice?

peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah bro , you know she was attracted, don't front. You just had too small of a sack to take a risk and do anything about it.
 

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Girls flirt and show interest with their eyes. Instead of the small talk, try getting her interest level up. Be charming, flirty, a little ****y, playful, etc.

I would have gone with Edmond's advice, or tell her to join you for a bite during or after the training. Are you going to see her again?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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