Trying to win her back

[DGboy23]

Hi,

I've been with someone for 4years now.. We got into a fight for 2days straight and to be honest it was really my fault because I always get mad at petty things.. And usually when I get mad i always say the worst things possible to her like I curse her most of the time and suddenly she got tired and wanted to break up with me.

We broke up this past 2 days and I really can't forgive myself for doing those things. She got tired of my stupid attitude when I get mad. I'm really hurting now and I don't know what to do. I really love her so much that I'll do anything to win her back. Even sacrificing the most important things just for her to love me back.

She mentioned that the love that she is feeling right now is not the same as before that is why it's unfair for her to still continue the relationship with me. I don't what to do to be honest. I can't live without her, she is my life.
She also mentioned that only time will tell if we are really meant to be. So she broke up with me to have time to reflect and see what happened. the thing is she wouldn't let me court her again because the break-up wouldn't mean anything if I courted her.

help me please... I really want her back.. I promise to change for the betterment of the relationship..

One more fact that I can say that is why I think she is the one for me, I asked God to give her to me but I think God took her away because of the way I treated her and because I took her for granted..

Anyway, please give me some advice on how to address this problem. I'm really heartbroken and it really hurts. I haven't slept for 2 days now and lately I've been working at the office at a par level.

Thanks,

-Dan

 

[DonDan]

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By the power of the holy spirit, I cast thy troll into the depths of hell!!!

 

[Scott Hall]

Hey man I call up Big Kev...and you and me, Chico? We go get the gold...and we get you women chico...

 

[DonDan]

are you a troll too? ive seen a lot of threads created lately by new guys...


WELL, i just hope to god people dont think im one of them cus im not. and im still looking for someone to help me out on my last thread.. why doesnt anyone bother to help? maybe i write too much..

 

[Kings_royalty]

are you a troll too? ive seen a lot of threads created lately by new guys...


WELL, i just hope to god people dont think im one of them cus im not. and im still looking for someone to help me out on my last thread.. why doesnt anyone bother to help? maybe i write too much..

What thread was that DD? PM me...

 

[DGboy23]

Can anybody out there help me? puhleez

 

[Kings_royalty]

Hi,

I've been with someone for 4years now.. We got into a fight for 2days straight and to be honest it was really my fault because I always get mad at petty things.. And usually when I get mad i always say the worst things possible to her like I curse her most of the time and suddenly she got tired and wanted to break up with me.

We broke up this past 2 days and I really can't forgive myself for doing those things. She got tired of my stupid attitude when I get mad. I'm really hurting now and I don't know what to do. I really love her so much that I'll do anything to win her back. Even sacrificing the most important things just for her to love me back.

She mentioned that the love that she is feeling right now is not the same as before that is why it's unfair for her to still continue the relationship with me. I don't what to do to be honest. I can't live without her, she is my life.
She also mentioned that only time will tell if we are really meant to be. So she broke up with me to have time to reflect and see what happened. the thing is she wouldn't let me court her again because the break-up wouldn't mean anything if I courted her.

help me please... I really want her back.. I promise to change for the betterment of the relationship..

One more fact that I can say that is why I think she is the one for me, I asked God to give her to me but I think God took her away because of the way I treated her and because I took her for granted..

Anyway, please give me some advice on how to address this problem. I'm really heartbroken and it really hurts. I haven't slept for 2 days now and lately I've been working at the office at a par level.

Thanks,

-Dan

The only thing you can do right now is give her space, let her reflect. If you start chasing after her, you will only push her away. Don't call her, email or text her. Wait until she contacts you.

Try to keep busy, keep her out of your skull. Yes, it will be hard as hell and it will continue to sting for a while, but it can be done. If anything, work on that little temper you have. Work on improving your self control (sounds like you need help with it).

Guys that display self-control are very sexy to women. Learn to control your emotions because it sounds like they might have cost you your girl.

 

[DGboy23]

Who are you referring to as a troll?

 

[DGboy23]

What if she doesn't come back? what do i do? Man, She's my life... I wouldn't want to live anymore if it wouldn't be with her..

i'm willing to change just for that 1 chance..

Kings royalty thanks...

 

[DGboy23]

By the way what if she doesn't contact me again? what do i do?

 

[DGboy23]

The only thing you can do right now is give her space, let her reflect. If you start chasing after her, you will only push her away. Don't call her, email or text her. Wait until she contacts you.

Try to keep busy, keep her out of your skull. Yes, it will be hard as hell and it will continue to sting for a while, but it can be done. If anything, work on that little temper you have. Work on improving your self control (sounds like you need help with it).

Guys that display self-control are very sexy to women. Learn to control your emotions because it sounds like they might have cost you your girl.

What if she doesn't contact me again? Man, she is my life.. I wouldn't want to do if she doesn't come back.. She's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with

 

[Kings_royalty]

What if she doesn't come back? what do i do? Man, She's my life... I wouldn't want to live anymore if it wouldn't be with her..

i'm willing to change just for that 1 chance..

Kings royalty thanks...

If she doesn't come back, then you dust yourself off and keep going bro. That's all you CAN do. This break-up just happened so it hurts like hell right now, give it some time bro.

Call you friends and keep busy, you need them around you now. Try to go out and enjoy yourself.

After 4 years, I'm sure she as some feelings for you, what you have to do is step back and give her time to get reacquainted with them. Your stupid temper has done a good job of killing those feelings up until now, let her get familiar with them again.

 

[Kings_royalty]

By the way what if she doesn't contact me again? what do i do?

After 4 years, I'm confident that she will contact you again, she will start to miss you. She may come up with a dumb excuse like, 'i left my CDs at your house', but I'm sure she will.

 

[DGboy23]

Still there King's royalty?

 

[Kings_royalty]

Still there King's royalty?

Feel free to contact me on yahoo messenger=kings_royalty.

 

[DGboy23]

After 4 years, I'm confident that she will contact you again, she will start to miss you. She may come up with a dumb excuse like, 'i left my CDs at your house', but I'm sure she will.

Man, she must come back.. I wouldn't live without her. When is the best time to court her again? Would that be a good idea? Just to prove how much I love her..

By the way, do you think she'll come back?

 

[DGboy23]

i'm sorry man but I'm in the office right now and they've blocked Yahoo Messenger. I can try to contact you tomorrow when I'm at home..

 

[DGboy23]

Do you think that's a good idea?

 

[piranha45]

no.

 

[WhAcKeD!]

Forget about her. It seems to me the focus in your life is in the wrong place. I think you need to take this time to find out who you really are and learn more about yourself.

By the way you type it sounds like you have been caged this whole time, and now you have finally been let out. You really want to go back to that? It obviously sounds like she was the one in control of the relationship.

Oh yeah, and god had nothing to do with giving you the girl or taking her away, that was YOUR own doing. I remember when I was a huge ass AFC and I would say that same crap, my how things have changed...