"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trying to get at this chick....!!

hbxdoode

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ok, i know this chick from 2 semesters ago in my class, i was always attracted to her, but didnt really make a move. talk to her once in a while in class but other than that nothing! I did noticed that she would check me out and i would catch her and she would look away... anyways that's old news. so the semester ended and we went our seperate ways.

And summer session started last week and she happens to be in my class again. To be honest i'm pretty please that she's in my class again, we said hi to each other, but other than that nothing yet! the thing is i wanna chat with her but she's always with this old b!tch, they're always together!... what should i do, how do i get her alone? do you guys think my chances have passed me by? some feedback please... thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guybrush

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go approach her. Don't use any canned stuff. Just be confident and approach the two, and ask how she'd been, what classes THEY are taking ( Don't ignore the b!tch, that'll only result in a failure)...

And make up an excuse ( like missed classes or homeworks) to closer her number.

Or if you are using FB, just close her FB account.

Then, ask for a date. if she says yes, you'll be dealing with other things. Don't try to isolate her during class time. It's creepy. We want to defuse their tactics and mind games.

1.)Number close ( or email close whatever..)

2.)And ask her out

that's it.
 

Evolution

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hbxdoode said:
what's FB bro? what's an FB account?
FB probably means Facebook, its a social networking thing. Yeah everyone's using it, including me.
 

hbxdoode

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ah ok... dont have facebook or myspace, i think its a waste of time... no offense!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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