Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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trying to get at this chick....!!

hbxdoode

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ok, i know this chick from 2 semesters ago in my class, i was always attracted to her, but didnt really make a move. talk to her once in a while in class but other than that nothing! I did noticed that she would check me out and i would catch her and she would look away... anyways that's old news. so the semester ended and we went our seperate ways.

And summer session started last week and she happens to be in my class again. To be honest i'm pretty please that she's in my class again, we said hi to each other, but other than that nothing yet! the thing is i wanna chat with her but she's always with this old b!tch, they're always together!... what should i do, how do i get her alone? do you guys think my chances have passed me by? some feedback please... thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go approach her. Don't use any canned stuff. Just be confident and approach the two, and ask how she'd been, what classes THEY are taking ( Don't ignore the b!tch, that'll only result in a failure)...

And make up an excuse ( like missed classes or homeworks) to closer her number.

Or if you are using FB, just close her FB account.

Then, ask for a date. if she says yes, you'll be dealing with other things. Don't try to isolate her during class time. It's creepy. We want to defuse their tactics and mind games.

1.)Number close ( or email close whatever..)

2.)And ask her out

that's it.
 

Evolution

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hbxdoode said:
what's FB bro? what's an FB account?
FB probably means Facebook, its a social networking thing. Yeah everyone's using it, including me.
 

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ah ok... dont have facebook or myspace, i think its a waste of time... no offense!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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