Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trying to date a stripper at a strip club. I need help.

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Hi all

As you all probably know by now I live in the UK and lately I have been trying to land this stripper at a club in London. Her name is Anna shes is 24 and I have never talked to her before. I was wondering if you guys could help me or give me some tips if you have dated a stripper before. Any ammo you have on openers, negs, etc that I can use on this chick is well appreciated (especially if you have used it before). I really like this chick alot (we are talking Pornstar big boobs and big ass looking woman).

I know I have alot of things working against me. I am not rich(I am a student in Uni so I am barely making it). I am average looking. And physique needs alittle improving. These some of my insecurites but I would still like to get with this chick.

I know going out with a strippers has is pros and cons but I don't care because I just want to land her.

Any help that you have will help alot.

Cheers

YODA.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As you all probably know by now I live in the UK and lately I have been trying to land this stripper at a club in London. Her name is Anna shes is 24 and I have never talked to her before.
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I don't understand. How have you been trying to land this stripper without talking to her? Do you just get lap dances and try to convey your desire with your erection?
 
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atention newbies,,,,,,,,,,,
this is a perfect example of ONEITIS....
try to avoid this mistake as much as possible.
 
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This post is tragic. Seriously. She doesn't look at you as a partner. If she liked you, she'd come get you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Unregistered
I don't understand. How have you been trying to land this stripper without talking to her? Do you just get lap dances and try to convey your desire with your erection?
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No I mean I see her but I have never really approached her yet. And no I can't afford lapdances. Are you kidding me? I havent got that type of money
 
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Originally posted by Leah
This post is tragic. Seriously. She doesn't look at you as a partner. If she liked you, she'd come get you.
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Not necessarily. How can you say that. She has probably never seen me before. I have to try and create attraction. If you are on the DJ board you should know this more than anyone.
 
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Originally posted by MasterYoda
Not necessarily. How can you say that. She has probably never seen me before. I have to try and create attraction. If you are on the DJ board you should know this more than anyone.
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You failed to create a rapport the second you saw her; now you're most likely infatuated with her, what we called "oneitis struck".

Forget about her, practice your approach, and the best of luck with the next one.

-Bill
 
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Originally posted by Bill
You failed to create a rapport the second you saw her; now you're most likely infatuated with her, what we called "oneitis struck".

Forget about her, practice your approach, and the best of luck with the next one.

-Bill
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I have to disagree with you Bill
 
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Ugh not again

In general, strippers are bad news. Stay Away.

But if you insist on learning the hard way, here's how.

Isolate her buy either ofering a smoke, a drink, a dance, whatever. It does'nt matter. Then ask her for her number. It is that easy. 95% they will give it to you. When I used to date strippers, I never had one refuse me her number. Again, though, you are asking for trouble if you do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Ugh not again

Originally posted by cinephile
In general, strippers are bad news. Stay Away.

But if you insist on learning the hard way, here's how.

Isolate her buy either ofering a smoke, a drink, a dance, whatever. It does'nt matter. Then ask her for her number. It is that easy. 95% they will give it to you. When I used to date strippers, I never had one refuse me her number. Again, though, you are asking for trouble if you do.
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What kind of trouble?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For f-ing sack you need money to date a stripper. stop asking questions.
 
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Originally posted by MasterYoda
OK so no one has any advice for me. I just want to **** her not anything else.
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I don't know, I've never even been to a strip club

PM Backbreaker, he seems to have experience with strippers

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People here make strippers sound like the worse people in the world but they are human too.

So far no ones has come out with anything useful except alot of BS :mad:
 
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Do a search for Mystery and Hired guns. He has a whole theory on getting them.

By the way, you have oneitis.

You REALLY like her but you've never talked to her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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