"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trying to crack 2 work girls at once

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Hey i work in a restaraunt as a dishy,and one of the chef apprentices she is pretty damn fine,im 18 she is 16... i dont see any problems..

1st girl.HB 7
ive been trying to have a crack at her,but it's hard to relate,she is one of those bubbly personalities types,and i cant seem to make her laugh,cause my humor seems to make older girls laugh,she works right next to me,and the other chefs are always around... she is the only girl in the back,but all the other guys are too old... anyone know how to get the 16 year old bubbly type? she isn't really an attention ***** either..

2nd girl HB 10,she is a waitress there.. she is 22 lol
and she talks to me way more,and is much easier to have a conversation with,i went back to her place the other night after a party.. but she just broke up with her bf so i didn't try anything... once again.. any views on how to get the older girl?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You didn't try anything because you were scared, not because she just broke up with her boyfriend.

Any girl will give it up in such a situation if you make a move on her and you aren't ugly. You was in her place after a party for crying out loud! You should of just gone for the kill and had a casual one-time bang.

What is it you want with them?

The Muscly Jerk
 

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thanks for the reply,well it's hard to say... this is probably gonna sound stupid..

but i wanna hang out with either of them,like become out of work good friends?

then i can see what their like and see how it goes,sort of play the field with them... but it's at work,and i have to work with them,so i dont wanna cop ****
 

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Sounds like a task and a half!

I believe you should just be a 'guy' to them with no appologies. Being on 'friendly' terms really isn't good and rarely will you recover from being a friend.. women are like coin sorters!

You have probably already been placed in the 'too young' slot by the 22 year old - it's just how things are..... usually.. you may of been able to take advantage of her after that party just for sex but...... I think you will be wasting your efforts on her.

If I were you I would focus on the 16 year old.. it's the perfect age match in my opinion.

The Muscly Jerk
 

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ye yeah said:
this is probably gonna sound stupid..
Very stupid.

You're not being honest with yourself. Why would you want to be friends with them? 2) You don't need help being friends with someone, did you follow some techniques in order to get your current friends?

I was in a similar situation recently. They were two friends and I didn't know who to ask out, one was hotter but I still wasn't so sure. I noticed that the one that wasn't as hot held eye contact while talking and was usually the first to answer a question or to continue conversation, that was when I automatically went for the close.

This isn't the same since one is 16, and to tell you the truth I'm kind of blind in that area. But safe bet is to ask her out and do your thing.

I'd go for the older one. Just ask her out as said in the DJ Bible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dont mess with people at work its not worth it, go out with them and try to bang there friends. Thats what i do with chicks from work.
 

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Yeah, I'd steer clear of work girls. Even if it's not a serious career job, it could still make for an uncomfortable work situation.

I know from personal experience...
 

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^^^

Co-Signed... The moment you bust a nut, somehow the whispers of romantic fantasy get utterly obliterated by the thrashing thunders of piercing reality... you realize, within a moments notice, brotha man... you done fugged up.
 

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TONYMONTANA523 said:
Dont mess with people at work its not worth it, go out with them and try to bang there friends. Thats what i do with chicks from work.
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I agree!

I had to quit my job when I was 18 because I had sex with a married mom I worked with. She was like 24... She told her husband and one of my co-workers because she "felt guilty"... I basically couldn't stand the drama and got sick of watching my back as I left work. (Because if someone had sex with my wife and the mother of my child, I would beat the sh*t out of them.)
 

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thanks for all the replies guys,you's have a great point about the work scenario if things go bad.. well the 22 yr old is out,getting with her would be too much effort..

im gonna go for the 16 year old,im slowly gaing rapport,when i get enough rapport going with her,im gonna ask for her mobile number then to texts then to hanging out,and see how i go.. im faily confident with her cause im older,feels easier..

i'll update with any progress with her,i'll keep it ongoing.. cheers guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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