"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Trust...
- Thread starter Hawke
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I only ask this because i see time and again it written here that if she says she trusts you, and as you said bobbles, if your not in a relationship together it's a bad sign. Yet i've heard it a number of times, not been with them in a relationship, yet still f***** them and had them wanting a relationship.
I mean are you guys here trying to suggest she's got to be scared of you, not trust you at all for her to even consider wanting you? Forgive me if i think that's a little basic, and quite a weak reason for thinking she's a lost chance.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
"I trust you."
Translation:
"I want you to feel guilty for being with other women."
Women throw "I trust you." around far too much. Trust is earned, not given freely. I'm beginning to believe it is a ho's set up for when she breaks things off (should you become "intimate"): "I can't believe you did this! I trusted you! It's OVER!"
It's a silly game. Don't play into it. Bust them at it: "You trust me? To do what? You trust me with what?" Make them explain their gibberish and watch them squirm.
Trust is understood: the fact that a woman actually vocalizes it points to a different motivation behind it and calls the legitimacy into question.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Hmmmm, what would you say then if it was a guy who asked the girl if she trusted him? And she was to say she did.Vulpine said:
Rollo Tomassi, i definately can't aruge with you there. Desire is much better... i'm just trying to work out why all the negativity i see associated with the line "I trust you."
It's the fact she's in a position to say it to you means she's probally thinking about somebody else.
Doesn't mean NOTHING will ever happen with a chick that says that to you, don't come to delusional conclusions.
lol, it's just words man, actions speak louder.