True or False: Girls only sh*t test when they like you

[sosuave213]

A girl and I were talking about music. She said, "Sorry, I don't take music recommendations" with a playful smile.

I knew it was a test on the spot so I just deflected with "I wasn't suggesting, I was asking you to suggest (which was true), but maybe a better response was "I get it. You have your own record label?". Fight fire with fire...Thoughts?

I also asked her at one point "where'd you learn how to clean like that?" Because she was using a napkin to clean the table. "Cause I'm Cuban? You're such a racist." While laughing and smiling. She's a weightlifter so I just said "I was talking about your clean." She laughed hard but if she wasn't a weightlifter, and this was some girl I knew nothing about, I'd be flabbergasted at how to respond to that. Any suggestions?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Leave.

She's not suggestible, she's a weightlifter, she's overly sensitive. Is she in the Castro Youth?

At the very least there's some strong penis envy here.

But to the headline, it's not black and white like that. They will to some degree unless they are completely uninterested. It depends on how much, how annoying, and to what extent the tests are designed to be jarring/mess up your game. There are levels to it.

Play true or false with your plates, not the board.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If they don't care, why test for congruity?

To flex

They also sh1t test to see how much you want them, how much sh1t you're willing to take

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I don't take any sh1t, but you have to be light-hearted and not care about their silly games.

Agreed if they are sporadic. If they are regular occurrences, time to reassess. You want to be detached, and also know when you are wasting your time.

 

[Learning Curve]

You are all taking sh1t tests too seriously.

When a girl replies like that 90% of the time she is just playful and you have to show you are cool with it and play along.

I don't get the "leave" analogy.

I had a chick that sh1t tested me for a month. She was playful but i was sh1tested so hard because her EX made her insecure to a whole new level. And she was not open to date other guys.

Eventually, i ended up in bed with her.

It's not always black and white. It's about understanding a flat-out disrespect and a playful sh1test.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It's not always black and white. It's about understanding a flat-out disrespect and a playful sh1test.

"it's not always black and white" he says as he lays out a binary perspective

It's a spectrum and the more experience you have the more you know how to weigh the behavior

If a girl is insecure, leaving is absolutely an option.

This girl is busting OP's balls, that's not playful.

 

[Bingo-Player]

A woman wants to be reassured a man can lead her confidently and won't crack under pressure

When she knows this she can comfortably submit to him and this makes everything 10X easier for everyone

This is the entire basis for sh1t testing and women do it instinctively because back in cave man days if a a man wasn't able to confidently lead and navigate the surroundings he would get them all killed

Obviously In modern times the risk of death is low but women still want to feel secure otherwise they can't be feminine

I like it when girls sh1t test because it gives me a chance to be whitty

Can be hard to think on the spot but like everything you get better with practice

 

[CornbreadFed]

Shvt testing is another term for cope simping. The girl either likes you or not.

 

[EyeBRollin]

False.

The more they like you, the less they shvt test.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Good luck with that one buddy. Wykyk and the npc's look at the game just like you.
Shyt tests have ZERO to do with her level of attraction to you. Its part of her confirmation process.
Your mom your sister and your aunt ALL shyt test you. Are you fcking them too?
Lol come on man this is not hard to understand

The only time I’ve been “shvt” tested was by women that weren’t attracted to me or didn’t see me as their best option. For women that see me as number 1, I could go shoot her parents and still have her suck my dvck the same day. Y’all are just cope maxing to the extreme.

 

[Redwood]

It depends on the vibe and severity of it. But sometimes you're not in the mood for it.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Maybe she's testing you because your showing this much interest and attention to a single woman.

So many of you on this forum lack purpose, it's just cerebral overthinking all the time. Stay in the pocket of the interaction, just play what you were gonna show her, maybe she starts teasing you about your musical taste, perfect, she's opened the door for you to do the exact same.

Forward thinking, always! This is why your on your purpose, to cultivate your life, this interaction should be the last thing on your mind. Maybe she doesnt show interest, oh well you move on but you don't allow her roadblocks to slow your progress, you blow past them, she has no authority over you unless your a simp

 

[sosuave213]

Maybe she's testing you because your showing this much interest and attention to a single woman.

So many of you on this forum lack purpose, it's just cerebral overthinking all the time. Stay in the pocket of the interaction, just play what you were gonna show her, maybe she starts teasing you about your musical taste, perfect, she's opened the door for you to do the exact same.

Forward thinking, always! This is why your on your purpose, to cultivate your life, this interaction should be the last thing on your mind. Maybe she doesnt show interest, oh well you move on but you don't allow her roadblocks to slow your progress, you blow past them, she has no authority over you unless your a simp

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[SargeMaximus]

False.

The more they like you, the less they shvt test.

This is the truth ime

 

[Learning Curve]

A man who doesnt take these tests seriously OR at minimum recognize when they are happening is like a toddler playing with matches.
In other words. An idiot

I never said I don't take them seriously.

It's about diversifying a straight sh1test from a playful sh1test.

 

[Learning Curve]

"it's not always black and white" he says as he lays out a binary perspective

It's a spectrum and the more experience you have the more you know how to weigh the behavior

If a girl is insecure, leaving is absolutely an option.

This girl is busting OP's balls, that's not playful.

She is not busting his balls.

She is testing his insecurities and how far she can go in terms of braking his frame.

That's all it is. if that falls under "busting hi balls" analogy then we could possibly use that term.

But again is about how you perceive what is happening. Non-reactive and c0cky funny responses generate the best results in my experience to women like that.

 

[EndlessNameless]

False.

The more they like you, the less they shvt test.

I agree with that, the girls that dig me the most did not shvt test me, at least in the initial steps of the relationship.
I would also say that from my own experience, the younger they are, the less they shvt test.

 

[Learning Curve]

Like I said. Death by a thousand cuts.
1 out of 30 men can even recognize a womans IOIs what makes us think they can decifer a playful verses non playful?
Lol
Women use the SAME biobtriggers for all of them. Her brain is not boxes like a man. Its a rats nest of wires plugging and unplugging.
Thats not how their hamster works.

We can agree and disagree. Everyone here has their own thoughts on certain things.

Use what works for you, that's always the best-case scenario.

 

[NoFear]

A **** test from a woman is a logical response, action or test itself to get herself out of an emotional feeling. She is using logic to get out of emotion.
If you use any type of logic to handle the test you wont pass it. You need to keep that woman in that emotion she is trying to get away from.

 

[Hal9000]

Girls will tease and be playful with you regardless, as it's their nature. Some guys see this as a #### test. When they are really doing #### tests to a guy it's because they don't care if the guy sticks around or not. If they are truly high interest they will be putty in your hands pretty much all of the time.