Troubling new trend: women on dating apps demand dinner dates

[Solomon]

Can't say I've ever encountered anything like that. It would be a waste of breath to even talk to a woman like that, let alone take her out on a date.

I found these women usually try to hide it under the guise of "ENM" funny thing is, the 2 women that I was recently talking too never had ENM on their profile.(I try to advoid those looney bitches like the plague, they are all crazy) I think it's just an excuse to cope that they are the side chicks for men who do not want them for something beyond a nut buster

 

[Solomon]

They either don't drink or they make it a point not to drink on dates.

I believe the term is "tarelochnitsa", same as propaganda, perestroika, vodka, it's a Russian word meaning plate-*****.

Women are getting successful, they earn same as men. Here in comes more careful picking of mates. It don't mean that she wants you to buy her a dinner, instead it's more about what she don't wants, a bum that drinks. Price of the P just went up. In Russia this has been happening for the past 10 years, it finally hit the west.

Here comes new venue into play, not a bar where alcohol is served and people get drunk, but hookah, a place where you can do absolutely useless thing, but it's popular and high end. Other venues include sports, tennis for example, think a hot session, a shower, and a coffee date in one. Coffee seems to be the cheapest option.

Yea, but go get hammered, seems to be going out of normalcy of things to do on weekends.

This may be true for Russia but in America, if a woman ask you to to go to Hookah, depending on where you live with drinks, you easily can run up a tab from $100-$300, and that doesn't include food

**** that lol

 

[Bokanovsky]

I found these women usually try to hide it under the guise of "ENM" funny thing is, the 2 women that I was recently talking too never had ENM on their profile.(I try to advoid those looney bitches like the plague, they are all crazy) I think it's just an excuse to cope that they are the side chicks for men who do not want them for something beyond a nut buster

Anytime you see weird sh!t like "ENM" or fetish stuff in a woman's profile, it's a bad sign. Even if you're not interested in anything serious, those women are trouble.

 

[Bokanovsky]

They either don't drink or they make it a point not to drink on dates.

I believe the term is "tarelochnitsa", same as propaganda, perestroika, vodka, it's a Russian word meaning plate-*****.

Women are getting successful, they earn same as men. Here in comes more careful picking of mates. It don't mean that she wants you to buy her a dinner, instead it's more about what she don't wants, a bum that drinks. Price of the P just went up. In Russia this has been happening for the past 10 years, it finally hit the west.

Here comes new venue into play, not a bar where alcohol is served and people get drunk, but hookah, a place where you can do absolutely useless thing, but it's popular and high end. Other venues include sports, tennis for example, think a hot session, a shower, and a coffee date in one. Coffee seems to be the cheapest option.

Yea, but go get hammered, seems to be going out of normalcy of things to do on weekends.

Hi Sevbucmash:

You should be careful drawing analogies between Russia and North America. It's true that women are women everywhere but cultural context matters too. Eastern Europe does not really have a bar scene in the same way as the English-speaking countries do. Over here, people don't necessarily go to a bar to get sh!tfaced. There are bars that serve this purpose (i.e. dive bars and party bars that cater to people in their early 20's) but there are also plenty of more upscale bars and lounges where it would be quite unusual to see severely inebriated and rowdy customers.

 

[Bigpapa]

Hi Sevbucmash:

You should be careful drawing analogies between Russia and North America. It's true that women are women everywhere but cultural context matters too. Eastern Europe does not really have a bar scene in the same way as the English-speaking countries do. Over here, people don't necessarily go to a bar to get sh!tfaced. There are bars that serve this purpose (i.e. dive bars and party bars that cater to people in their early 20's) but there are also plenty of more upscale bars and lounges where it would be quite unusual to see severely inebriated and rowdy customers.

there are places where people go to get drunk, but they are usually frequented by the low class people, as normal people tend to go to clubs to get drunk

 

[Solomon]

Anytime you see weird sh!t like "ENM" or fetish stuff in a woman's profile, it's a bad sign. Even if you'r not interested in anything serious, those women are trouble.

Totally agree, I have had no good experience with women who do ENM I'm talking about the ones that are looking for some side **** not whole relationship or some weird pseudo living situation. I was dealing with an ENM girl late 2021 early 2022, she turned out to be looney tunes trying to find a beta to rescue her from her wife or husband (the guy turned into a T cross dresser) the girl was a basket case cause she realized she did not want to be married to her or "It"

The ENM women aren't worth it even if you think it will be easy ass, no sane woman is going to be fine with this and also ENM women tend to be bigger sluts then non-ENM women IMO

 

[MatureDJ]

This may be true for Russia but in America, if a woman ask you to to go to Hookah, depending on where you live with drinks, you easily can run up a tab from $100-$300, and that doesn't include food

**** that lol

I don't spend any more than $100 on hookers.

 

[MatureDJ]

Hi Sevbucmash:

You should be careful drawing analogies between Russia and North America. It's true that women are women everywhere but cultural context matters too. Eastern Europe does not really have a bar scene in the same way as the English-speaking countries do. Over here, people don't necessarily go to a bar to get sh!tfaced. There are bars that serve this purpose (i.e. dive bars and party bars that cater to people in their early 20's) but there are also plenty of more upscale bars and lounges where it would be quite unusual to see severely inebriated and rowdy customers.

In Russia, "going to a bar" is going to the store to get a bottle of vodka.

 

[MatureDJ]

Anytime you see weird sh!t like "ENM" or fetish stuff in a woman's profile, it's a bad sign. Even if you're not interested in anything serious, those women are trouble.

I had to look this up.

Non-monogamy - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

I don't see the point in being both non-monogamous and having some type of close memetic (or even worse, legal ) connection: "You are my man, but I want other men's d!cks" is simply irrational.

 

[MatureDJ]

Anytime you see weird sh!t like "ENM" or fetish stuff in a woman's profile, it's a bad sign. Even if you're not interested in anything serious, those women are trouble.

Worse than "I am a Wiccan pagan"?

 

[MatureDJ]

Got this from Reddit, lol at this broad asking for caviar I just can't
I seriously blame simps for this, bitches wouldn't have the audacity if suckers and simps wouldn't indulge them
This is still pretty cringe on her part tho, this is why I only do coffee dates or Drink at my condo dates

Red caviar is not all that expensive. I can remember getting a small jar of it for like $7 in St. Pete before the war.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sure, there might be better ways to phrase the alternative options but the point is that you don't want to sink time into a woman that is going to equate your value to how much you spend on her.

That all depends on the value proposition and whether you have that cash in the first place. I know that with my increased wealth, I don't have such a problem increasing my spend rate for poon. There was a day when my stock portfolio gained over $200K in one day , and I got an amazing erection over it.

 

[MatureDJ]

She's likely testing to see whether or not you'll capitulate, and may not even look like that in RL. Stick to your guns

Gosh that is so freaking sexy.

 

[Solomon]

Red caviar is not all that expensive. I can remember getting a small jar of it for like $7 in St. Pete before the war.

This is the USA, though and this girl doesn't want red caviar for $7 she wants cavier at a restaurant which will run you $100-$400 and that doesn't include drinks or side dishes!

If I spend that much for a first date she better suck my **** through a straw

 

[Bokanovsky]

This is the USA, though and this girl doesn't want red caviar for $7 she wants cavier at a restaurant which will run you $100-$400 and that doesn't include drinks or side dishes!

If I spend that much for a first date she better suck my **** through a straw

I was going to say, if she wants to eat caviar on the first date, she's going to have to eat it off my d!ck lol.

A woman making this kind of demand is no a different than a dude demanding that the girl do his laundry and dishes and clean the toilet first time she comes over.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

That all depends on the value proposition and whether you have that cash in the first place. I know that with my increased wealth, I don't have such a problem increasing my spend rate for poon. There was a day when my stock portfolio gained over $200K in one day , and I got an amazing erection over it.

Did you do any shorting?

 

[MatureDJ]

Did you do any shorting?

No, I'm short enough.

Ha ha, no I don't do any shorting, but I sometimes do leveraging. I had made a good bit riding SMR (like $70K ) up and then rang the register, and later on saw that it was at about 25% off from where I had sold it, so I decided to nibble on it again, but it kept going down, so I continued to nibble, eventually getting the 2X SMR ETF (SMU) to continue to average down my virtual position. Then it tanked some more, and it was looking like it would need to dilute (i.e., sell ATM "at-the-market" shares), so I bailed out, giving $15K back to the Market Gods . That said, if it takes a really big drop, I'll get back in. Doing a profitable round trip is the complete mog for an investor.