"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Trouble with wife

TylerDurden

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Wyldfire said:
I no longer want my name associated with the cesspool of hatred that this site has become.

Goodbye

LOL

A good AW always comes back especially when it pays off. Remember that lesson guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wonder how he is doing.

Anyway...the more I think about this woman (his wife) the more it reminds me of this Bernard Shaw exchanged with this beautiful young woman.

He asked her: "Would you sleep with me for 100,000 pounds?"

She replied: "Well...of course."

Then he asked: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?"

She replied: "Of course not! What kind of woman you think I am?"

To which he replied: "I already established the type of woman you are. I am now negotiating price"

He has already established the kind of woman she is. Negotiating a "price" is not going to change that...IMO.
 

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I'm still here....have been pretty busy last few days. I will be seeing her this weekend and we're going to hang out and talk. I have read all of the posts so I will try to make sure that I haven't wasted the time of anybody who has given their advice. Again, I appreciate it. I do know one thing: I will NOT go back to the way things were. We have not been fighting since I moved out and I think this weekend will be a good barometer on how things are going to go in the future. Here's a bad sign though: She seemed to have hinted that she is like, the perfect wife. Probably a sneak attack b*tch test to see if my resolve has weakened. Its going to be interesting gentlemen. I will let you know.
 

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danny62 said:
I'm still here....have been pretty busy last few days. I will be seeing her this weekend and we're going to hang out and talk. I have read all of the posts so I will try to make sure that I haven't wasted the time of anybody who has given their advice. Again, I appreciate it. I do know one thing: I will NOT go back to the way things were. We have not been fighting since I moved out and I think this weekend will be a good barometer on how things are going to go in the future. Here's a bad sign though: She seemed to have hinted that she is like, the perfect wife. Probably a sneak attack b*tch test to see if my resolve has weakened. Its going to be interesting gentlemen. I will let you know.
I truly things work well for you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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