"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trouble with wife

TylerDurden

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Wyldfire said:
I no longer want my name associated with the cesspool of hatred that this site has become.

Goodbye

LOL

A good AW always comes back especially when it pays off. Remember that lesson guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I wonder how he is doing.

Anyway...the more I think about this woman (his wife) the more it reminds me of this Bernard Shaw exchanged with this beautiful young woman.

He asked her: "Would you sleep with me for 100,000 pounds?"

She replied: "Well...of course."

Then he asked: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?"

She replied: "Of course not! What kind of woman you think I am?"

To which he replied: "I already established the type of woman you are. I am now negotiating price"

He has already established the kind of woman she is. Negotiating a "price" is not going to change that...IMO.
 

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I'm still here....have been pretty busy last few days. I will be seeing her this weekend and we're going to hang out and talk. I have read all of the posts so I will try to make sure that I haven't wasted the time of anybody who has given their advice. Again, I appreciate it. I do know one thing: I will NOT go back to the way things were. We have not been fighting since I moved out and I think this weekend will be a good barometer on how things are going to go in the future. Here's a bad sign though: She seemed to have hinted that she is like, the perfect wife. Probably a sneak attack b*tch test to see if my resolve has weakened. Its going to be interesting gentlemen. I will let you know.
 

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danny62 said:
I'm still here....have been pretty busy last few days. I will be seeing her this weekend and we're going to hang out and talk. I have read all of the posts so I will try to make sure that I haven't wasted the time of anybody who has given their advice. Again, I appreciate it. I do know one thing: I will NOT go back to the way things were. We have not been fighting since I moved out and I think this weekend will be a good barometer on how things are going to go in the future. Here's a bad sign though: She seemed to have hinted that she is like, the perfect wife. Probably a sneak attack b*tch test to see if my resolve has weakened. Its going to be interesting gentlemen. I will let you know.
I truly things work well for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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