"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trouble with hired gun

Chamber36

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I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the best attraction switch to hit on hired guns is pre selection. she must see that you get a lot of attention from other hot girls. these girls get hit on constantly so she will believe more of what she sees rather than what she hears from you.
 
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Chamber36 said:
I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
take her number
meet up with her
try to bang her
repeat

don't overthink :)
 
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