Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trouble with hired gun

Chamber36

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I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thevilittletroll

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the best attraction switch to hit on hired guns is pre selection. she must see that you get a lot of attention from other hot girls. these girls get hit on constantly so she will believe more of what she sees rather than what she hears from you.
 
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Chamber36 said:
I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
take her number
meet up with her
try to bang her
repeat

don't overthink :)
 
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