"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Trouble with hired gun

Chamber36

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I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thevilittletroll

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the best attraction switch to hit on hired guns is pre selection. she must see that you get a lot of attention from other hot girls. these girls get hit on constantly so she will believe more of what she sees rather than what she hears from you.
 
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Chamber36 said:
I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
take her number
meet up with her
try to bang her
repeat

don't overthink :)
 
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