"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trouble with hired gun

Chamber36

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I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thevilittletroll

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the best attraction switch to hit on hired guns is pre selection. she must see that you get a lot of attention from other hot girls. these girls get hit on constantly so she will believe more of what she sees rather than what she hears from you.
 
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Chamber36 said:
I know a girl, she works at a club. I kind of work there too/see her 2 or 3 times a week. I saw her today, we hung out. It was good. Giggles and laughs, but I was a little less confident than usual. She previously complimented me on my blase aloof arrogance. This time I was a little bit stoned and it was the only 1 on 1 time we'd spent together. Once or twice the conversation didn't flow as much as she'd expect from me. Was a good time but often her eyes wandered a bit.

Any tips on how to handle the situation?
take her number
meet up with her
try to bang her
repeat

don't overthink :)
 
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