"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Trouble in the bar

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hey guys, long time reader, first time poster here

i was at a chic bar last night with a wingman and having a good time and then i see this smoking hot chick walk in with a guy. the guy was pretty big, like 6 foot 5 and a football player's build. but i wanted to go for the girl cause she was like a 9.5.

i wait a few minutes and they both got drinks and were standing by the bar. he put his arm around her, but i think they were just friends. so i knew from my pua stuff i needed to amog this guy, but it would be tough cause i'm not a big guy and he's huge. my friend asks me what i'm gonna do and i'm like, "watch ill show you."

so i go up to the guy and girl on the guy's side (get the guy first right?) and lean on the bar and order my drink. so while i'm waiting for my drink to come i'm like okay i better open now. so i go all out with the amog and i take my left hand slap the guy on his butt really hard and i say, "whats up sexy?"

omg guys he totally flipped out. he turned to look at me and gets all up in my face threatening me. i didn't want to fight, but i decided now is a good time to go for the girl so i say, "what's up baby?" to the girl, but she doesn't even respond!

what did i do wrong guys? i followed all the pua stuff i read and it didn't work. i just left the bar cause it was about to get crazy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The funny thing about trolls on this site compared to other sites I go to...they'll actually sit down and write out a 3 paragraph story just to get a 2 second laugh from trolling a message board.

Why bother?
 
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