"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trouble in the bar

puaverysoon

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hey guys, long time reader, first time poster here

i was at a chic bar last night with a wingman and having a good time and then i see this smoking hot chick walk in with a guy. the guy was pretty big, like 6 foot 5 and a football player's build. but i wanted to go for the girl cause she was like a 9.5.

i wait a few minutes and they both got drinks and were standing by the bar. he put his arm around her, but i think they were just friends. so i knew from my pua stuff i needed to amog this guy, but it would be tough cause i'm not a big guy and he's huge. my friend asks me what i'm gonna do and i'm like, "watch ill show you."

so i go up to the guy and girl on the guy's side (get the guy first right?) and lean on the bar and order my drink. so while i'm waiting for my drink to come i'm like okay i better open now. so i go all out with the amog and i take my left hand slap the guy on his butt really hard and i say, "whats up sexy?"

omg guys he totally flipped out. he turned to look at me and gets all up in my face threatening me. i didn't want to fight, but i decided now is a good time to go for the girl so i say, "what's up baby?" to the girl, but she doesn't even respond!

what did i do wrong guys? i followed all the pua stuff i read and it didn't work. i just left the bar cause it was about to get crazy.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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The funny thing about trolls on this site compared to other sites I go to...they'll actually sit down and write out a 3 paragraph story just to get a 2 second laugh from trolling a message board.

Why bother?
 
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