"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trouble gauging interest level

Hyper2010

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Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? x
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kiss lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hyper2010 said:
Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? xshe texts you = interest
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kissinterest - she wanted you to kiss her lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x interest

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
are you blind?

loook at the red I put in
 

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I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike32ct

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Wolfgang D said:
I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
My age is showing here...

"Drive" by the Cars
 

foreverAFC

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how many kids and other fck buddies does this one have hyper ?
 

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You serious, broski? It's a green light! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go!
 
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