"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trouble gauging interest level

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Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? x
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kiss lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hyper2010 said:
Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? xshe texts you = interest
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kissinterest - she wanted you to kiss her lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x interest

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
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are you blind?

loook at the red I put in
 
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I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wolfgang D said:
I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
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My age is showing here...

"Drive" by the Cars
 
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foreverAFC

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how many kids and other fck buddies does this one have hyper ?
 
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You serious, broski? It's a green light! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go!
 
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